vineri, 6 ianuarie 2017

2017. And a New Year's Resolution: Trust!

Motto: ..."şi mă las nins şi nu mi-e frig." 
From "Cu bulgări de zăpadă-n mâini", 
 by Nichita Stănescu 
January 1, 2017                       
From the first sunny moments of january!... 
                              And with the January's first snowflakes: 
                   Happy New Year!

Like in a previous post on my blog,  I'll wish for the New Year to be like in classic ovations (if I can say like this) 
for: something old, new, green, colorful, vivant and vibrant, lots of good cheer and good health! especially, joyful and full of hope ovations for good health!...
...Also, perhaps, still some Confidence and Positivity in these hard and difficult times for so many people worldwide...
But above all these, like in an old song, I'll wish you: Joy and Happiness!

And I'll add below, (from the net, of course), a funny recipe for a good year:

 "Reţeta pentru un an bun!  Se iau 12 luni şi se curăţă foarte bine de amărăciune, mândrie, ură, invidie, frică, irascibilitate şi stres. Se împarte fiecare lună în 28-31 zile, după caz, astfel ca proviziile să ajungă exact 1 an...! Fiecare zi se prepară separat: 1 parte muncă, 1 parte linişte, 1 parte umor. Se mai adaugă 3 linguri optimism, 1 linguriţă toleranţă, un praf de bun sim...ţ şi. o picătură de speranţă! Peste aluatul astfel obţinut se toarnă apoi dragoste din belşug. Preparatul gata făcut se aşează pe farfurie şi se împodobeşte cu frunzuliţe de curaj şi încredere în sine. Se serveşte zilnic, cu bucurie, alături de ceaşca de cafea din fiecare dimineaţă! Prezenta reţetă nu se compensează, ea este gratuită şi se transmite liber de la om la om, însoţită de urarea: Un An Nou darnic şi bun, Sănătate Deplină, Fericire Maximă şi Abundenţă Absolută!"

"The recipe for a good year! Take 12 months and cleaned them well of bitterness, pride, hatred, envy, fear, irritability and stress. Divide  each month in 28-31 days, as appropriate, so that the supplies to reach for exactly 1 year ...! Every day is prepared separately: 1 part work, 1 part quiet, one part humor. It adds: 3 tablespoons optimism, 1 teaspoon tolerance, a pinch of common sense ... And a drop of hope!
Over the dough thus obtained is then poured love abundantly. The preparation ready made sits on the plate and it is decorate with (leaflets), small leaves of courage and self-confidence. It is served daily, with joy and next to the cup of coffee every morning! This recipe it does not compensated, It is free and freely transmit from human to human, accompanied by the greeting: a New Year -generous and good, Full of Health, Maximum happiness and an Absolute Abundance! "
January 6, 2017
I'll wish for the New Year to be like in classic ovations (if I can say like this)  for: something old, new, green, colorful, vivant and vibrant, lots of good cheer and good health! especially, joyful and full of hope ovations for good health!... ...Also, perhaps, still some Confidence and Positivity in these hard and difficult times for so many people worldwide... But above all these, like in an old song, I'll wish you: Joy and Happiness!
January 6, 2017
Arhiva foto privată/ Private photos archive.
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Series of photo instants, 
up-close & collages;
Edited in color, sepia and/or black & white. 
Visions. January.

Private archive.
2017©AlexaT
GândCălător.blogspot.com
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Source of video above: You Tube/internet.

From Did You Know Category

About Trust* (emotion)
* click to read more info on Wikipedia

"In a social context, trust has several connotations. Definitions of trust typically refer to a situation characterized by the following aspects: One party (trustor) is willing to rely on the actions of another party (trustee); the situation is directed to the future. In addition, the trustor (voluntarily or forcedly) abandons control over the actions performed by the trustee. As a consequence, the trustor is uncertain about the outcome of the other's actions; they can only develop and evaluate expectations. The uncertainty involves the risk of failure or harm to the trustor if the trustee will not behave as desired."
"Trust can be attributed to relationships between people. It can be demonstrated that humans have a natural disposition to trust and to judge trustworthiness that can be traced to the neurobiological structure and activity of a human brain. Some studies indicate that trust can be altered e.g. by the application of oxytocin." 
(...)
In the social sciences, the subtleties of trust are a subject of ongoing research. In sociology and psychology the degree to which one party trusts another is a measure of belief in the honesty, fairness, or benevolence of another party. The term "confidence" is more appropriate for a belief in the competence of the other party. Based on the most recent research[citation needed], a failure in trust may be forgiven more easily if it is interpreted as a failure of competence rather than a lack of benevolence or honesty. In economics, trust is often conceptualized as reliability in transactions. In all cases trust is a heuristic decision rule, allowing the human to deal with complexities that would require unrealistic effort in rational reasoning."
"Sociology
When it comes to trust, sociology is concerned with the position and role of trust in social systems. Interest in trust has grown significantly since the early eighties, from the early works of Luhmann, Barber  and Giddens for a more detailed overview). This growth of interest in trust has been stimulated by on-going changes in society, characterised as late modernity and post-modernity.
Trust is one of several social constructs, an element of the social reality. It does not exist outside of our vision of the other. This image can be real or imaginary, but it is this one which permits the creation of the Trust. Other constructs, frequently discussed together with trust, are: control, confidence, risk, meaning and power."
...
Psychology
In psychology, trust is believing that the person who is trusted will do what is expected. It starts at the family and grows to others. According to the psychoanalyst Erik Erikson development of basic trust is the first state psychosocial development occurring, or failing, during the first two years of life. Success results in feelings of security, trust, and optimism, while failure leads towards an orientation of insecurity and mistrust possibly resulting in attachment disorders.
A person's dispositional tendency to trust others can be considered a personality trait and as such is one of the strongest predictors of subjective well-being. It has been argued that trust increases subjective well-being because it enhances the quality of one's interpersonal relationships, and happy people are skilled at fostering good relationships."
...
Philosophy
Some philosophers argue that trust is more than a relationship of reliance. Philosophers such as Annette Baier have made a difference between trust and reliance by saying that trust can be betrayed, whilst reliance can only be disappointed (Baier 1986, 235). Carolyn McLeod explains Baier's argument by giving the following examples: we can rely on our clock to give the time, but we do not feel betrayed when it breaks, thus, we cannot say that we trusted it; we are not trusting when we are suspicious of the other person, because this is in fact an expression of distrust (McLeod 2006). Thus, trust is different from reliance in the sense that a truster accepts the risk of being betrayed.
The definition of trust as a belief in something or a confident expectation about something leads to eliminate the notion of risk from the definition, because it does not include whether the expectation or belief is favorable or unfavorable. For example, to have an expectation of a friend arriving to dinner late because she has habitually arrived late for the last fifteen years, is a confident expectation (whether or not we agree with her annoying late arrivals.) The trust is not about what we wish for, rather it is in the consistency of the data of our habits. As a result, there is no risk or betrayal because the data now exists as collective knowledge."
About Trust* (emotion)
click to read more info on Wikipedia

*Source of video/ quotes/ below
 Power of Positivity.com; 
Daily Vibes; Positive Energy; Internet

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Motto: 
"Write it on your heart
that every day is the best day in the year.
He is rich who owns the day, and no one owns the day
who allows it to be invaded with fret and anxiety.
Finish every day and be done with it.
You have done what you could.
Some blunders and absurdities, no doubt crept in.
Forget them as soon as you can, tomorrow is a new day;
begin it well and serenely, with too high a spirit
to be cumbered with your old nonsense.
This new day is too dear,
with its hopes and invitations,
to waste a moment on the yesterdays.*"
*Source Internet: 
By Ralph Waldo Emerson in "Collected Poems and Translations".

Happiness starts with yourself.

Once again, to all of you,
Happy New Year! An Nou Fericit!


Be joyful, amazing and never give up to smile! 
Stunning things are all over! 

Stay positive, today, tomorrow and always! 

Rămâi pozitiv, astăzi, mâine și întotdeauna!
So, very thankful, each and every day, to be inspired...
All is well...

27 de comentarii:

  1. I love your recipe. I think it will work wonderfully if I keep at it. Your cat is such a patient model. I wish a very happy and healthy New Year!!

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    1. Lovely described "a patient model"! :) Thank you sou much, Yogi. And a very happy and Healthy New Year, too!

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  2. So well chosen quotes today too with fabulous photos! Enjoy your music and lyrics in 2017! I'm not so keen on music but without books I can't do ;)

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    1. Wonderful, Riitta! Also, a beautiful year of 2017 and full of wonderful moments, to you, too!

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  3. Happy New Year to you as well. I see you like ABBA. They were favorites when I was young :)

    I like your cat, It is elegant in some way :)

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    1. Love their music, always!! Many thanks and a Happy New Year, too!

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  4. Hello, love your sweet kitty. Gorgeous sky shots. Thank you for linking up and sharing your post. Happy Saturday, enjoy your weekend!

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  5. Wonderful variety in your post ~ my favorite are your collage of photos and especially your dear kitty ~ thanks,

    Wishing you a Happy and Healthy New Year ~ ^_^

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    1. Thank you very much, Carol! A Happy and Healthy New Year, to you!

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  6. Alexa, I would be more than happy to see your links at Floral Bliss. The old 'rules' were too restricitive... Thank you - wishing you a nice week!

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    1. Thank you once again, Riitta! A wonderful and great week ahead!

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  7. Your kitty is a natural camera star!! She's beautiful (and she knows it). I enjoyed the recipe for a good year and had to smile that it included "serving" along with a cup of coffee. I agree that no matter how cheerful and loving and happy you are and how good your attitude may be -- it is still absolutely necessary to start the day with a good cup of coffee!!!

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    1. I think you're right; for sure he is so patient with my camera... ;) Oh, of course, the coffee is necessary to start the day... Wonderful thoughts, Sallie! Have a lovely week ahead!

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  8. Alexa, thanks for sharing your Happy New Year greeting. I wish you the best, please stop back again.

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  9. A great post full of verve and hope for the New Year, Alexa! May 2017 be a happy one for you!
    Thanks for taking part in the Friday Greens meme.

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  10. Some lovely silhouettes there, Alexa!
    Thank you for linking up with the Saturday Silhouettes meme.

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